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also she has boycotted going to church because of the recent sex abuse scandals and not wanting to affiliate with an organisation that has defended child rapists
i'm pretty happy over that
Atomika/Atomic Ross won't be around any more. She had a long discussion with her wife, who was hurt that she'd come out to me, a complete stranger, long before her. In the interest of keeping the marriage and working on honesty, she felt the need to give up both the forums at large and me as a friend. So don't hold your breath waiting for her - she's not going to be coming back any time soon, if ever. It's unfortunate, but I don't feel it's fair to blame anyone for this. I certainly don't, even as the party who has most license to. Sometimes shit happens, and I would be lying if I said I hadn't considered this an unfortunate possibility.
I doubt she's coming back to read PMs, so if anyone has any questions, it's my job, as the one who knew Atomika best (and was literally put in charge of letting people know about the self-imposed exile), to answer them. Feel free to ask here or message me, as my inbox is always open.
Most of Britain is hardly churchy.
congrats on the lesbianism mim
bummer about atomika but i can understand where her wife is coming from
yes yes we know you're all godless sodomites i watch fox news
Wait, Atomika was Atomic Ross?
https://twitter.com/Hooraydiation
YOU SEE WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU WATCH THE L WORD, MIM
Yes.
Man you missed a lot :P
That is unfortunate.
Though I suppose coming out as trans is likely to put any relationship under strain. I'm sure you'll pass on our collective best wishes if it seems appropriate.
well she will be once she watches that netflix show
Eventually chat will be the gayest place on earth.
People will complain that my avatar is practically grayscale compared to the glorious rainbow of chat.
--LeVar Burton
Man, that's too bad.
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Yeah, though I think the added strain of "Shivahn knows all the things" is probably bigger >.>
I feel a little guilty about that, but know I really shouldn't. Life does not present people with fair or good choices sometimes.
I'll be sure to pass them on.
http://mlkshk.com/r/9TH
Give Atomika/Ross our best wishes. I bet this will be tough on her. Just let her know we are thinking about her.
But it being Ross makes waaaay more sense as to why I was involved.
Shh
You have no idea the gold mine I've stumbled upon.
I really liked Shane, at least.
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Which page was this on?
Transitioning is a trying time but I know Atomika will rock it. Get it girl!
@Mim
ONE OF US
ONE OF US
I love chat so much.
I've spoken with some bespoke shops and they try to sell you on 3 weeks worth of everything so that you can have one week home, one at the cleaner, one coming back from the cleaner, but you should NOT be having your clothing cleaned everytime you wear it. You will destroy it that way. If pants/jackets don't actually get dirty, they should only be cleaned a few times a year, total. And with a sufficient stock of shirts (15 is three weeks for me) and always making sure to wear undershirts, you should be able to go 2 months or so without cleaning your dress shirts too. Having shirts laundered destroys them over time.
Casual clothing actually needs to stand up to more wear IMO. You are more likely RJ wear it in situations where you swear, and when you clean it, its in the washing machine at home. I actually recommend having 10+ casual shirts for each season, if you are buying good, classic pieces and want them to last. But then I also don't like looking like I am always wearing the same clothes, but u think some people care a lot less about that.
"There are no necessary evils in government. Its evils exist only in its abuses. If it would confine itself to equal protection, and, as Heaven does its rains, shower its favors alike on the high and the low, the rich and the poor, it would be an unqualified blessing." -- Andrew Jackson
We could have a gay parade and subsequent gay orgy and we still wouldn't be half as LGBT-friendly as SE++ appears to be
Gonna miss him. Well, her, now!
"There are no necessary evils in government. Its evils exist only in its abuses. If it would confine itself to equal protection, and, as Heaven does its rains, shower its favors alike on the high and the low, the rich and the poor, it would be an unqualified blessing." -- Andrew Jackson
I can see that, I suppose.
At the same time I can see why someone would want to explore an issue like this with a (relatively) disinterested bystander first out of concern for their relationship - my understanding is that a common feature of the trans experience is a lengthy period of questioning the nature of the desires/thoughts/issues that are being experienced.
Of course, there may be more to it than that, and I dont want to pry. I hope they can work it out.
i have two formal shirts for work
It's why I don't really feel hurt at all. It sucks, but I understand every person involved's feelings, they're all natural and I'd feel the same way in all the positions.
I hope it all works out too.